Going to the Chapel and I'm...

Gonna be an MOH!
Hot shit!
My sister is getting married!
I'm so excited I could just burst. I'm not only happy for her, but happy for an addition to the family. I'm happy she is happy. I am happy for the responsibility to be someone's, anyone's, but my baby sister's(woooo!) Maid of Honor.

New Years eve in Vegas...are you kidding me! She's my hero!
Combining my favorite holiday, in my favorite party city, with my favorite sister. I could just pee.
I feel like I was waiting for this day my whole life, but I didn't know it until she announced it. Seeing my little sister get married, start a new life, be sooo happy.
I don't know much else that could be as exciting or draw the same response...well, maybe when Maddi announces that she is getting married. It's kind of the same. My heart is so full.

AND M.O.H. wow!
If my sister only knew how honored I am.
I'm gonna ruin all her pictures with my tears of joy - Oooh! Note to self, suggest pics be taken before ceremony. Yes, that is genius.

It occurred to me to find a proper list of MOH duties, just in case I am living in a fantasy of what is expected:

• Lead the bridesmaid troupe. It's the maid/matron of honor's (MOH) job to direct the other maids through their duties. Make sure everyone gets their bridesmaid dresses, go to dress fittings, and find the right jewelry. Also provide them with the 411 on all prewedding parties.
• Help shop for dresses (the bride's and the bridesmaids'). And the MOH pays for her own entire wedding outfit (including shoes).
• Offer to help the bride with prewedding tasks, from addressing invites to choosing the wedding colors and nodding enthusiastically when she waxes poetic about wedding cake.
• Spread the news about where the bride and groom are registered.
• Help the bride change for her honeymoon and take charge of her gown after the ceremony. Arrange for storage in a safe place until she returns.
• Lend an ear. Whether it's about the planning, the marriage, or the registry china patterns, the MOH should assure the bride that she has someone with whom she can share her thoughts. Even if she seems to dwell on the same subjects repeatedly, the MOH keeps listening.
  
• Host or cohost a bridal shower for the bride.
• Attend all prewedding parties.
• Keep a record of all the gifts received at various parties and showers (or delegate a bridesmaid to handle this).
• Plan the bachelorette party with the bridesmaids.
• See to it that all bridesmaids get to the rehearsal; coordinate transportation and lodging, if necessary.
• Make sure that all bridesmaids get their hair and makeup done, get to the ceremony on time, and have the correct bouquets.
• Hold the groom's ring during the ceremony. Safest place to put it? On your thumb.
• Arrange the bride's train and veil before the ceremony begins and just after she arrives at the altar. The MOH might also need to help her bustle the train for easy dancing at the reception.
• Hold the bride's bouquet while the couple exchanges vows.
• Sign the marriage license as a witness, along with the best man.
• Stand next to the groom in the receiving line (this is optional; the bride may decide to have attendants circulate among the guests instead).
• Play hostess along with the other bridesmaids at frequent points during the reception: show guests where to sit, direct them to restrooms, tell them to where to put presents, invite them to sign the guest book, etc.
• Collect any gift envelopes brought to the reception and keep them in a safe place.
• Make sure the bride takes a moment to eat something -- refresh her drink, get her a plate of food from the buffet table, or instruct the wait staff to keep her entree warm.
• Dance with the best man during the formal first-dance sequence and possibly be announced with him at the beginning of the party. Also dance with other groomsmen, the groom, and others.
• Toast the couple after the best man. (This is optional, but it is a nice touch.)
• Troubleshoot emotional crises. In most cases, this will require lots of tissues, hugging, and hair-smoothing. The MOH continues to be a trusted friend, a good listener, and a smart advisor.
• Keep the bride laughing. For the stressed-out bride, laughter can be as effective as venting.

NOW THIS I CAN DO!!


My best wishes and biggest heart-full of love for my sister Dedree and her love Damon~ I hope they see all the light in the world as they rise together to face all the battles of the world and see the most beautiful sunsets as they close everyday with their love for each other.

I am so proud and happy~